Why on earth would anyone like to throw a smaller wedding? In these days of
over-the-top celebrity weddings and spending enough on a wedding ceremony to put
you in debt for years to come, you do not hear much about small weddings. But
they're making a comeback, specifically for those brides who prefer a more
personal, intimate atmosphere. That's why I wanted to share some small wedding
tips with you in this post.
First, though, let me clarify several
things. A small wedding does not mean an informal wedding, or a simple wedding,
or a inexpensive wedding (though obviously, because the guest list is
dramatically reduced, there can be significant savings). It simply refers to the
size of the guest list. Instead of inviting your best friend's great aunt from
Pittsburgh, the guest list and big event are confined to a small circle of close
relatives and friends. How small? Frequently as small as only ten to fifteen
people.
Beyond sharing the most critical day of your life with a
small, intimate group of friends, a small wedding allows you the freedom to
focus on those aspects of the wedding which are most important to you and might
otherwise have been out of your reach.
For example, a smaller
wedding makes a destination wedding far more practical than a large wedding. A
destination wedding is strictly as it sounds ... the wedding is held out of
town, at a setting that meets the interests of the bride and groom. Las Vegas is
a destination wedding. A theme park, such as Disney World, is a destination
wedding. There really are few limitations ... a mountain lodge, a beach house, a
bed and breakfast, a ski trip, and so on. While the wedding ceremony and guest
list are small, a destination wedding becomes much simpler to
achieve.
The reception for a small wedding can be held in the
intimate, comfortable setting of a family member's home. It could be held at the
favorite restaurant of the wedding couple. It can be held out doors at a
favorite park, or in the backyard of your best friend. With these more intimate
weddings, your options are nearly unlimited.
You also have more
leeway in your food options. If this is a significant area for the wedding of
your dreams, then catering or dining out at a fine restaurant are more likely to
fit within your budget. However, you could equally enjoy a potluck or a buffet
or even an afternoon of hors d'ourves. A smaller wedding party allows you the
freedom to pursue the wedding you really want for yourself.
The
idea behind a smaller wedding is to share your special day with only a few
exclusive people. Since the size of the wedding celebration and guests is
definitely manageable, small weddings suggestions often allow you to pursue the
wedding of your dreams when otherwise it would not be possible. Whether it's a
fancy, elegant wedding or a few close friends sharing a common interest, it's
your choice. Make your intimate wedding a wedding that you will never
forget.
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